Daughter disses dad for the holidays – Stresser of the Day

Father and daughter, Poland

Merry Christmas Everyone!

This stresser is dedicated to a man who has dedicated himself to his family without prejudice, sacrificed without blame and stands for all that is good in a father, my best-friend in the whole world.

I do not understand how a father who has done everything in his power to ensure that his children are happy, healthy and living decently (even renting one of them a 2 story house) can be treated like he is lower than dirt by one of his children. It is sad that regressive memories and a sense of entitlement can turn a daughter into a ruthless, heartless broom who sweeps those of no interest to her under the rug.

I was told today by my best-friend, that his daughter wasn’t coming by for Christmas, because she would have to wake up earlier than she usually does to stop by and visit her father, who has given her the world, for even 15 minutes on Christmas day. Mind you, she passes his house every time she goes to her mother’s house, which are about 10 minutes apart. This is where she was heading today, to see her mother and her mother’s family for Christmas. Instead, she wanted to have her and her children’s present delivered to her by her brother. This wouldn’t even be a possibility because her and her brother have not spoken for 3 years this upcoming Super Bowl, due to her mental errors of thinking she can approach and yell at his children before coming to him first and saying she can do whatever she pleased.

My best-friend is the greatest father in the world to his children. He tries everyday to show his children that he loves them unconditionally, with his son, he doesn’t even have to try, to his son, this man is his hero, the best man on earth, not just because of the help he has given him, but because of the mental support, love, caring and understanding that this man has given unconditionally to his son throughout his entire lifetime. This daughter of his however is just a self-absorbed, ego-centric pain in the ass who thinks the world evolves around her and that everyone should cater to her and her children. This man deserves the best all of the time not just Christmas, and it stresses me all of the time to know that he is hurting inside because of the broken relationship that has formed between him and his daughter, which was beyond his control.

Merry Christmas, to the best-friend in the whole world.

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3 comments on “Daughter disses dad for the holidays – Stresser of the Day

  1. This story reminded me about a book I read not too long ago by John Kralik called, 365 Thank Yous: The Year a Simple Act of Daily Gratitude Changed My Life.
    Have you heard of it?
    Maybe you could pass it on to your friend~anything helps, right?

  2. Pingback: My Christmas – Present « The World according to Buffy

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